Why does change feel so hard—especially for military spouses? If you’ve ever told yourself you just need more willpower, motivation, or discipline, this episode challenges that belief. In this episode of More Than a Milspouse, we unpack why habit change often fails in military life and why stress, PCS moves, deployments, and constant unpredictability make traditional approaches to change ineffective.
You’ll learn the three biggest myths about change, why willpower and motivation don’t work long-term, and how shame keeps military spouses stuck in cycles of starting over. We’ll also introduce a more compassionate, sustainable approach to habit change—one that works with real military life, not against it.
Better Together,
Christine
00:00 – Why habit change feels so hard
04:00 – How beliefs about change keep us stuck
05:00 – Myths about change
12:30 – What actually happens when change fails
13:30 – Why this hits military spouses harder
16:45 – What if the problem isn’t you?
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
Book: Tiny Habits — BJ Fogg
(Referenced in comparison) Atomic Habits and The Power of Habit
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